The Man behind A Successful Woman..

The Man behind A Successful Woman

I came across this article from a Taiwanese female writer that I've been following.. Her articles are in mandarin and I couldn't find a way to copy and paste it here.. So if you can read mandarin, do click on the link and have a good read of it. If you can't, let me summarize her article for you.

Basically her article is about women that given up the chances of being success, being excellence just to feed men's low esteem. Men tends to go after women who are not as smart as them, not that successful so that they could 'manage' women. so that they wouldn't feel that they are dumb or lousy. Too many women give up opportunity for their so-called loved ones and when the relationship ends, they regret of what they missed.

I love what she said in the article. I went through the stage as well. Gave up a greater opportunity so that my ex-bf wouldn't feel bad of himself. Did i feel happy after that? Definitely not!

Love yourself, girls! Search for yourself, live for yourself! Only by loving yourself more then you'll find love!

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Pure Bliss Pt1

Another year of blessings.. I am one who totally sucks in planning my own birthday! It's so much easier to plan for others' birthdays than my own. I'll always get worried about pleasing everyone that attend my birthday party. So in the end, i rather give up planning my own. Thank God I have awesome friends that willing to take over the planning part and throw me a beautiful birthday bash.

Due to the amount of photos and 2 separate celebrations, I shall do my birthday's post in 2 posts.

So, on Friday night, 3 girls headed for japanese dinner before the party starts!

A bottle of wine as pressie from Justin..

Dinner with my birthday planners, YiWen & Sarah..

Feels good to have a good wine over dinner..

After dinner, we went for desserts at another japanese restaurant, Bonsai.

Ruiling came and joined us.

and it so happened that we were seated at table no 25. 25 is my birthdate.

We spent some time camwhoring whilst enjoying da desserts.

The girls love the red backdrop. So we kept snapping with it.

and they insisted of snapping my back..

Time to rock the party!

At Crown karaoke with Nicnic..

My girls..

Thank you Chloe babe for making it to my party! Ur presence does mean something to me!

The lovebird, Zaizai & NicNic..It was great having u guys. It's been too long since the last time we hang out. 2 years??

Couldn't recall what were we doing.

I would like to call this behind my back.

Surprise!

My 'annual' friend, Andrew which he lied to me that he won't be able to make it due to a business deal in Rome. And I actually believed him! Hmmpf

Surprise again! I never thought of having a birthday cake that night you know. Was really surprised..

and touched because it's my favourite Durian cake!!

Im a happy girl :D

A kiss for you!

with Ruiling & Lionel..

Wing.. Please ignore the baka Andrew! haa

A proper one with Andrew and his gf which I forgot the name. Im so so sorry!

Eric & Lionel.

Thank you Jude for coming thou you were so tired from work :)

with Ben.. Thanks for being the photographer and getting the cake!

Another surprise which I bumped into the Old man, Ken just right outside Crown. And because of him, I got drunk!

Biiig thanks to everyone that made it for that night! It was great catching up with you guys again and definitely a memorable night with me feeling drunk, totally forgot how i got home and suffered a hangover the next day :S:S Nonetheless, it was good! Xx

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No longer a pain..

Realized the advertisement on the right side of my blog? It's YesStyle advertisement! I was delighted when I found out the upcoming advertisement is actually YesStyle. I was just going to share about this!

For ya all out there that have no idea about YesStyle, YesStyle is an online-shopping website providing Asian-style fashion. Being a petite asian in a western country with only less than 160cm height, it has always been a pain to shop especially when it comes to jeans or pants! I experienced a few miseries while shopping for jeans or pants in perth. Imagine paying a huge amount for a pair of jeans and still have to add on another 20 to 25 bucks on alterations alone. Ugghhh. I never liked it. Not to mention, I always have difficulties searching for a pair of formal pants. Not only the length, but the size and cutting as well. The choices are so limited for a 'hobbit' like me! Then one fine day, I got to know about YesStyle through a friend and she strongly promoted this website. So I went 'hmm, sounds interesting ey.. I shall take a look'. I hopped on to my lappie and spent 2 or 3 hours that night just checking out clothes on YesStyle. Hahaha! And I made my first purchase that night as well.

This website feeds my hunger soul for Asian fashion as i hardly find any access to Asian Fashion in perth. And I would say the quality is really good for the price i paid, the system and response are quick as well and most importantly they fits me well!

For any of you whose having trouble looking for asian-style clothes in wherever you are, hop over to the website and have a look. Hope it helps you!

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A Lifetime Commitment..

A vow that I made.. A lifetime promise that I would keep.. to please my Father in heaven and for a rich life that no one else than my Father could provide..

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Home is where the heart is..

Today i finally booked my ticket for my trip home. I was thrilling once the payment confirmation page popped up, rushed to hotmail and checked the inbox for the itinerary, jumped all over the room when i saw it. just like a lil kid when he/she got a new toy that have been in waiting list like forever.

Home... is where my family is, a place where I feel belonged and secure. I'm so eager to be home!! I'm going to eat all the food that I've been craving for the past one & a half year! Seafood, durian, kon lou mee, sang nyuk mien, hokkien mee, soto, satay, wo tie, cheesecake and my everyday-must-have, ice lemon or ice milo drinks. I'm dying for them. When i'm home, I am going to cook for my parents, get them to cook for me (my dad is an amazing chef ey!) and one most important thing! I am so going to sleep with my mum until she kicks me out of her room (heeheehee)!!

2 more months to go. I shall be patient for now. Home, I'll be back soon!! :D

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SATC 2

Can't wait for this to be out.. despite the overly eyebrows-raising sex scenes, i love love love SATC!!!! Hopefully it'll be out in Australia at the same time as US..

Sometimes you just have to get away with the girls!

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又再发生了。 很累很无助。但又能怎样。 还是得自己来。除了上帝， 还有谁能倾诉呢？很久已没试过的浩涛大哭，把自己哭累了，也把自己拉回到了现实。 再难走的路也得走， 不管怎样我还有上帝。

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What's going on?

Easter dance practice, loads and loads of assignments & mid-term tests, easter sunday performance, farewell to attend, birthday celebration, and cousins' one week visit..

My first experience with polaroids.. I am outdated i know that.. but i am seriously amused by it.. can't wait to own one myself..

Will do a proper update soon.. after my war with evil assignments! xx

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